OLD DOGS NEW DICKS
Everything
changes. People change. Because, wise people say, “Changes are the natural
law.” Do you agree? But in the case of man-woman relationship, it doesn’t sound
right. LOL.
In one episode Sex
and the City entitled “Old Dogs, New Dicks” Carrie complained to Samantha about
Big who (still) liked looking at other women, although at that time they were
spending time together. Instead of approving Carrie’s complaint, Samantha said,
“If Looking at other women is the biggest problem of your man, you’re lucky. It
is part of their genetic code, like farting. Once you start to change a man,
it’s doomed. They won’t budge an inch.”
Do you agree with
Carrie or Samantha? J
Well, I understand
Carrie’s annoyed feeling. It is annoying to be with a man you are in love with
– and you think he is also very fond of you – who constantly looks at other
women, although once upon a time I dated a guy – I was very positive that he
was really fond of me – who liked doing that and I didn’t mind at all.
Can I say that one
thing that made Carrie annoyed is that she was not sure if Big responded her
feeling the way she wanted him to?
In that episode,
Miranda complained the different ‘schedule’ she had with Steve, who was her new
boyfriend at that time. Steve who worked as a bartender loved having sex in the
morning while in fact at that time Miranda had to be in a rush to her office.
Miranda had much spare time in the night but Steve had to stay at the bar till
at least 2 a.m. when Miranda was asleep.
To ‘solve’
Miranda’s problem, Charlotte came up with a suggestion, “How about making sex
schedule?” Cynically Miranda said, “How romantic!” LOL.
Samantha said,
“Once you try to change a man, it’s doomed. They won’t budge an inch. The only
things that you can change are their hair and their closet.”
But then Samantha
found out that she had changed a man to be a queer, a guy she dated years ago.
And ... perhaps the guy was really fond of Samantha, so when he got dressed as
a woman, he used name “Samantha”. LOL.
Have you ever
imagined a guy you once dated ‘changed’ to be a woman? LOL. Try to be in
Samantha’s shoes. LOL. No wonder she was very disgusted. Hmmm ... btw, a few
years ago I had a crush on a guy who was very intelligent and critical to
(almost) everything. One time we chatted via YM and he told me that in fact, he
was feminine (although his writings sounded far from being feminine). He felt
that he was trapped in the wrong body. But ‘luckily’ he claimed that he was
‘lesbian’. So, for those who don’t really know him will never know. We only
knew each other online. Cannot imagine if I saw him in real with his strong
feminine side. LOL.
Meanwhile the case
with Charlotte in this episode was Mike – a guy she dated here – was that Mike
was uncircumcised: one thing that shocked Charlotte when the first time they
were about to have sex. In fact Charlotte was very disgusted so that in their
next date, she refused when Mike was about to drop by at her apartment. And ...
to everybody’s surprise, Mike was willing to be circumcised. Not only for
Charlotte though. Mike himself couldn’t take it any longer, most women he dated
gave the same (shocked) reaction when seeing his penis.
After Mike was
circumcised, and both Mike and Charlotte enjoyed their first lovemaking,
Charlotte got another shocking news. Realizing that to be circumcised made him
a virgin, Mike was not ready to be in a serious relationship with Charlotte. He
wanted to share his penis with many other women. LOL.
So ...
Have you ever
thought of trying to change your life partner? His hobbies? His way of getting
dressed? His job? His (un)healthy lifesytle such as smoking and drinking? Or
are you the one who (have to) change for the sake of your relationship?
PT56 10.28
24/07/2015
The first pic was taken from here
The second pic was taken from here
