CIRCUMCISION
Some
time ago I discussed “circumcision” in my religious studies class. I downloaded
the material to be discussed from http://www.bbc.co.uk/ethics/ . I intentionally selected
the topic to introduce an idea about ‘female circumcision’ or people also call
it as ‘female genital mutilation’. And, as I expected, all students did not
know yet about the ‘existence’ of this disastrous ‘so-called’ tradition in some
areas in the world.
MALE
CIRCUMCISION
To
begin with, we talked about male circumcision. One male student of mine who
just moved back from America to Indonesia around a year ago said that he and
his older brother got circumcised after they arrived back in their home
country. This particular student of mine is around 18 years old. When I asked
him why he did that, he said his parents convinced him that it would be for his
as well as his brother’s health advantage. He believed that circumcised penis
is more hygienic. And after being circumcised he said that he felt his genital
area was cleaner or it was easier for him to clean it.
Another
student said that he did not get circumcised because his mother never talked
about it. He believed if it were really good for his health, his mother would
talk about it and offered him to have it or not. The statistic given in the
material discussed – only around 30% of males in the world are circumcised –
strengthened his opinion that circumcision is not important.
Two
female students shared their stories when their brothers got circumcised. They
said that their brothers got their penis circumcised after they had a
discussion about it with their parents – especially their fathers : It is
important that men get circumcised for medical advantage. Besides for medical
reason, they believed that circumcision is compulsary because it is one
religious obligation.
However,
when finding out that in fact only the book of Genesis stating the importance
of performing circumcision – and not in The New Testament nor in Alquran – my
students started thinking that perhaps circumcision is carried out in some
areas in the world due to cultural reasons and not religious instruction.
FEMALE
GENITAL MUTILATION
As I
wrote above in fact my students have never heard of female circumcision yet. They
were never aware of this bloody inhumane practice. Their parents never talked
about it to my students and nobody else has ever got them to know this. Since
the Genesis only mentioned about male circumcision – and no verse at all in the
New Testament or Alquran mentioning about it – we came to the conclusion that
female circumcision – or female genital mutilation – is all due to cultures. (At
least it is not supposed to be a part of Abrahamic faiths’ rite.)
“Why
does it state that female circumcision is very painful while male circumcision
is not? Or at least not that painful?” one student asked when the handout we
discussed wrote “painful procedure.”
It is
a painful procedure perhaps because in fact in women’s genital area there is
nothing to be cut for any reason – for example for hygienic reason. If there is
no hygienic nor religious reason, why do many people still do that nowadays?
Genital
cutting is widespread within some African cultures and ethnic groups. It is
seen as the climax of initiation, something that both boys and girls have to
take part in before they are accepted as adults in the community. According to those
who support this practice, the process of female genital cutting has practical
merits in a physically harsh society. It is proof that the woman is mentally
strong and able to deal with the difficult responsibilities of adult life. Nevertheless,
representatives from many countries in Africa meet each year to discuss ways to
end the practice because “female genital mutilation and cutting is a violation
of the basic rights of women and girls. It is a dangerous and irreversible
procedure that negatively impacts the general health, child bearing
capabilities and educational opportunities of girls and women,” said Carol
Bellamy, executive director of the UNICEF on February 7 2005, the International
Day of Zero Tolerance of FGM.”
Girls
in African countries undergoing female genital mutilation are usually still
very young – six years old – so that it means the decision to have it is in the
hands of their parents. The parents possibly do that due to social pressure and
the girls cannot say ‘NO’ towards their parents while in fact those girls are
the ones who will suffer from some negative impacts caused by FGM.
FEMALE CIRCUMCISION IN INDONESIA
Although
the practice of FGM in Indonesia is not as ‘well-known’ as in Africa, we can
still find it especially in rural areas despite the fact that the Indonesian
government officially banned FGM in 2006. If in Africa female circumcision is
considered as the climax of initiation before girls enter adulthood, what about
in Indonesia? The article in this link said that there are three
reasons why some foundations holding free circumcision events include female
circumcision :
- · It will stabilize her libido
- · It will make a woman look more beautiful in the eyes of her husband
- · It will balance her psychology
The
first reason strengthens what women activists have said that the practice is
strongly misogynistic. Inferior and weak men need to do something to ‘calm’ (or
conquer?) women’s sexual drive. In order to make themselves sexually powerful,
they must weaken women first. Besides doing this ‘physical thing’ they also
create false true woman precept: a true woman must be libido-less.
The
second reason is illogical since the criteria of being beautiful is different
from one person to another. While the third reason is very wrong since FGM even
can cause some negative impacts. FGM also can result in a lifetime trauma,
moreover when done by not an expert and using non hygienic media.
The
same article reported that female circumcision in Indonesia is less extreme
than the kind practiced in other parts of the globe – Africa particularly. Despite
some studies done on it informing that female circumcision in Indonesia is done
by merely rubbing turmeric on the genitals or pricking the clitoris once with a
needle to draw a symbolic drop of blood, the Population Council’s 2003 study
said that 82 percent of Indonesian
mothers who witnessed their daughters’ circumcision said that it involved
‘cutting’. Another article at this link stated that “while the
procedure in Indonesia is not as severe as in parts in Africa and involves
cutting less flesh, it still poses a serious health concern.”
“The
fact is there is absolutely no medical value in circumcising girls. It is 100
percent the wrong thing to be doing,” said Laura Guarenti, an obstetrician and
WHO’s medical officer for child and maternal health in Jakarta.
There
is no medical value nor cultural tradition nor religious merit in female
circumcision. The Indonesian government banned the practice in 2006. So, what
caused the even more widely-found practice in society? Social unawareness! Ignorance!
Misogyny! In order to make it safer, the effort proposed by Linda Gumilar, the
Minister of Women’s Empowerment, to make the female circumcision practice
medicalized and carried out by trained health personnel will make it sound misleadingly
lawful.
Maria
Ulfah Anshor – one women’s rights fighter – said, “I would advise not to
circumcise your daughters at all. It women are circumcised, people believe they
become more beautiful and not as wild and will make men more excited in bed.
For women themselves, they don’t get any excitement at all.”
CONCLUSION
When
male circumcision possibly has medical benefits and it is somewhat strongly
encouraged from religious views – it is written in the book of Genesis – female
circumcision has no medical benefits at all for women and it is not written
either in any so-called holy book. The root of it is just misogyny that dates
back from immemorial time.
GL7
12.06 110612
9 comments:
I agree with you, it's flawed to compare male and female circumcision. Male circumcision is usually a very little and risk free procedure compared to female one, and it has both sexual and health benefits.
I'm a guy myself chat chose to circumcise as an adult, and both me and my wife enjoys it so much more now. No smell, better looks and better performance.
Thank you for this well written and interesting article. I had no idea female circumcision was practised in Indonesia, so your article was very educational.
Unfortunately, I did find it a little difficult to read, due to having to highlight and scroll the screen.
However, I am very glad I persisted!
to 'A guy'
thank you for dropping by and leaving a valuable comment. I believe that this comment of yours can be referred to by men who are still not sure to get circumcised or not. :)
to 'Anonymous'
thank you for dropping by and leaving traces. :) I am wondering whether you viewed this via cell phone or laptop/computer. Because if you use a laptop/computer, you will see that the background is white and the font is black, so I think it can be clearly read. If you use cell phone, yes, it is a bit difficult to read. My apology. :(
No problem, "Nana", I think it's important to counterbalance the negative image circumcision has had in western media these days. While I can agree that it should be carried out when the boy can choose for himself, it has gone too far considering that male circumcision is now also seen as mutilation by some, which I consider to be misinformation.
Yes, there are of course some risks associated with any kind of surgical procedure, but if carried out competently the risk of a misconducted circumcision is negligible when using modern methods, and I think that risk is by far outweighed by the benefits.
I think many men have second thoughts about the procedure due to lack of information about the different procedures. But, we're in 2012 and there are a range of different circumcision types and styles out there to accommodate different preferences. There's also laser circumcision available now, which produces less scarring, and there's different of follow up procedures to "tighten" up or cosmetic enhancements.
Ikut menyimak artikelnya gan :-)
Salam,
circummission for female is not useful i think
I personaly not agree with FGM. It makes the girls traumatic
i like this posting
nice sharing your post
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